Tea Ceremony Details


Date & Location

Date: November 21, 2025

Location: 5464 Conner Drive, Oxnard, CA

Dress Code

Men: Suit or Slacks and Dress Shirt. Tie Optional

Women: Dress


Agenda

  • Bride side arrives at Henry’s Parents House

    • Prepare Gifts for Ceremony

    • 5464 Conner Drive, Oxnard CA 93033

    • Parking available throughout neighborhoods here

  • Tea Ceremony Begins

    • Step 1: Everyone assembles where the tea ceremony is being held

    • Step 2: Opening statement and introduction from Groom side

    • Step 3: Introduction to Bride’s side

    • Step 4: Tea is first served to the bride’s parents, and then to other relatives/elders in descending age order or level of closeness:

      • Parents

      • Great-grandparent

      • Grandparents

      • Aunts and uncles

      • Etc

    Note that unmarried cousins, siblings, and younger folk in general are optional tea receivers.

  • After Ceremony Luncheon

    • Pancit

    • Fried Chicken Wings

    • BBQ Pork

    • Eggrolls

    • Stir Fried Noodles

    • Fried Rice

    • Many other things…

  • Conclude Ceremony

    • Travel to Hyatt Hotel, Anaheim: 1800 S Harbor Blvd, Anaheim, CA 92802